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  © 2017 Coach Nick

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  FOR THE CHILDREN

  As adults, it’s our job to improve this world. It is time for humanity to live in peace and with love.

  This E-book is dedicated to all those children that are abused by adults.

  We must provide to the future generation the best example. Nowadays there are families where children grow up in loveless families.

  Girls who use men. Boys who use women. Why does it happen? Because the parents don’t understand relationships in the first place and so their children won’t! This book will open your eyes, so you’ll get to recognize that your contribution can have a huge influence in our world.

  I don’t want that the next generation to suffer as the past ones. A family where love is absent is not what a child deserve. It’ll set him up for the same pattern.

  My purpose with this book is to destroy your emotional blocks, so you’ll be able to give and receive love. Your love story has to be an example for your children – and for everyone -. If you are a smart person, this book won’t change only your life. It’ll help you to lead many others to do the same.

  ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS

  I would like to thank my parents that broke up when I was five years old. They didn’t love each other anymore. Their break up taught me that you can always revolutionize your life if you don’t like it.

  Thanks to my aunts, and my grandparents that took care of me when I 6 years old and I was alone. They showed me another way of living. I learned to take constant action doing the little things every day, starting from waking up early.

  Would also like to thank my teachers and schoolmates that helped me to raise up when I was completely lost. I learned that some people really love to help others.

  Thanks to my godparents for teaching me how important is to enjoy life.

  Thanks to my chief-entertainer who led me to the biggest shift in life. I learned to be able to give my best and to feel good even on my worst days.

  And finally a thank to my mentors, Coach Corey Wayne and Tony Robbins. They thought me how to understand relationships. And how to control my mental state to enjoy the process of pursuing my dreams.

  WHAT’S SEXUALITY?

  Before you can start the process of growing as a man, you have to understand it. Sexuality is the nature’s mechanism to “ensure” the continuation of the species. In a natural environment, every creature develops a sexuality dedicated to reproduction. In nature, animals have to respond to very practical stimuli, so their brains elaborate a particular set of instincts.

  What happens when you grow up in an environment where you are limited by abstract things like rules, laws and the promise of punishments if you don’t follow them? Responding to these stimuli won’t be the same as responding to nature’s freedom and danger. Indeed reproduction is a must when predators are around, and you don’t know how many days you have to live. Your brain would not take the risk to let you die without procreating. Either If you are the last man on earth, only hope for your species, or if you’re part of a community where your child will have to take your place one day.

  What happens when you don’t have to use your organs, as you would do in nature because multi-nationals nourish you? You don’t need a strong sense of smell and taste. You don’t develop the qualities that allow you to understand what you need to eat and when. Add to this the fact that many alimonies contain synthetic products nowadays. These two factors are enough to create hormonal imbalances in people, which obviously affect their sexuality. Don’t believe it? Testosterone’s deficit won’t make a man more masculine or alpha. Think about it!

  In the modern world, sexuality can be twisted from this two factors. It loses its function of perpetuation’s mechanism of the species, and it becomes a pleasurable hobby. Honestly, I love this, but balance is required. As a man, you cannot let your sexuality take control of you. Neither can women.

  This book is not meant to destroy sexual freedom. Indeed it’s intended to enhance it. I will guide you through a journey, that will open your eyes to who you really are, what sexuality actually is and how to use it, instead of being used by it. It’ll make you more energetic and efficient in all areas of your life.

  WHY I WROTE THIS E-BOOK?

  Since when I was a child, I was very shy of my needs. Something was oppressing me. Suddenly I could no more express myself in any area of my life. I lost my self-confidence, and I would always take for granted other people’s opinion over mine. I had a belief that I did not know anything about life. I convinced myself that the truth was what average was. I become aware that my sexuality was different and wanted to be like others. But suddenly in my late teens, I woke up. I realized I was worth as much as other people.

  After this clarity moment, I had to fight a lot. People did not like that I was no more under their control. I was now able to use my brain. They tried to convince me I was not worth it in every possible way. But I could no more accept this; now I knew what my real capabilities were. So I started to climb. It was very hard at the beginning; I did not know who I could trust. And finally I found some mentors, but they were English, and I couldn’t understand them. I had to work harder than others. I did it!

  These mentors taught me that you are worth as much as you can give. What does it mean?

  The more you can help other people the more you are worth.

  If you work at McDonald’s, you earn only $7-8/hour. Why? The reason is that anybody can do it. But if you invest in yourself you become a source of inspiration and information for people. When you help others, you get something back. You get freedom. And money is freedom.

  If you help thousands of people, you will earn thousands of dollars. If you help hundreds of thousands of people, you earn hundreds of thousands of dollars. If you help millions of people, you earn millions of dollars.

  I understood that I could become more worthy than other people. All I had to do was to invest in myself. And trust when I say you <>. As I was growing as a man, I discovered that my desires were coming true and I was becoming a positively dominant person. I was a leader, and I was always ready to help others to become more.

  This book will not only help you to change your sexuality. It’ll do much more! It will improve all areas of your life. Your body, mental, social, business and love life will never be the same. Where can you find the energies to do all that? You don’t even imagine how you are wasting your energies at the moment.

  WHY YOU HAVE TO READ THIS E-BOOK 10-20 TIMES!

  If you read these concepts just once, you won’t complete the mind-shift. You have to create new habits, new ways of thinking. You can’t change your limiting beliefs of a lifetime by reading a book once, even if it’s full of powerful ones.

  It’s true that at the first reading something will happen inside of you. But if you stop there your old rituals will defeat your new hope.

  If you really want to change you have to read this book the first time and start to act on the things I teach. Then read it again and act more. Repeat the process as many times as needed.

  Once you develop enough self-confidence, you will be able to create your positive story. Which will be different from your old limiting one and from the one I am telling you.

  TABLE OF CONTENTS

  Chapter 1 – The naysayers are always wrong!

  The Secret Formula to Success.

  Why am I Helping Others?

  CHAPTER 2 – Face the reality!

  What Defines People’s Character?

  The Spartans – A Real Men’s Example.

  The Beta Boys.

  Detach From The Ego.

  CHAPTER 3 – The secret sourc
e of energy!

  Your Brain is Plastic, Learn How to Shape it.

  The Destructive Habits.

  The Revival!

  The Most Famous Masochist’s Sad Wife.

  The Mind – Where Your Vibrations Origin.

  To Change Takes Commitment.

  CHAPTER 4: Training!

  Working Out, Will Shape Your Body, Mind, And Spirit.

  Develop The Persistence.

  The Diet.

  A Super-Power Called Decision-Making.

  Form New, Powerful Habits.

  The Law of Average.

  CHAPTER 5: Focus – Control your state of mind!

  Two Opposite Ways of Focusing.

  Arnold Schwarzenegger.

  Focus And Work Ethic - A Combo to Manifest your dreams.

  CHAPTER 6: Become an achiever, The ability to translate dreams into reality!

  The “Real World.”

  A Dream-Killer Called Hesitation.

  The Autosuggestion – Bring Your Focus at The Next Level.

  What to Write Down in Your Plan.

  Feed Your Mind With High-Quality Conversations.

  Progress.

  Want to Succeed? BURN THE FUCKING BOAT!

  Resourcefulness – The real Resource.

  The Ultimate Level - Taking Action Under Stress.

  Be Confident, But Keep a Gentle Touch.

  A new Leader is Born.

  CHAPTER 7: Dominant behavior – Never pursue women & they’ll pursue you!

  The Legend Says Women Don’t Like to Dominate in The Bedroom.

  Always Read Your Woman – Understand women’s Language.

  Listen More, Speak Less.

  Dating, Seduction, And Sex – The Power of Emotional Connection.

  6 Mistakes to Avoid & States of Mind to Adopt.

  How do Women Test Your Masculine Energy?

  Do You Have to Pay For Sexual Pleasure?

  She is Dominant Only When I Allow it.

  It’s Not The Look; It’s The Vibe.

  9 Rules to Enhance Your Social Life.

  CHAPTER 1 - THE NAYSAYERS ARE ALWAYS WRONG!

  Every change and every achievement begin with a tremendous desire. If you want to achieve wealth, it starts with a thought. If you want the girl of your dreams, it starts with a simple thought. Still, if you want to become a professional MBA player, it starts with a thought. But what do you want to do? Do you want to change your sexuality? Do you really want to change your deeper self?

  “Don’t be ridiculous! Everyone knows it’s impossible. Nobody’s ever been done that before. Yes exactly, if you bought this E-book, you have been fooled! Indeed to change your sexuality is impossible, and people, especially those, who earn from you living in this state of mind, will not miss any chance to remind you this horrible truth. Exactly, this is your only reality, so don’t even try to escape, accept that you were unlucky and you were not born to experience love, wealth and freedom. You were only born to serve people that will joyfully and happily tell you your life is a waste and that you’ll be a(n) (un)willing slave forever. These people will take your money (because this is what they really want) with a smile on their face, leaving you with a feeling of emptiness, after the loss of your most important resources: not only money but also personal will and power. Yes to change your sexuality is impossible and everyone can easily (and careless) affirm that. After all, this is how the world works. Don’t fight it. People’s opinion is always right and very accurate.”

  The Secret Formula to Success.

  Obviously, I have been Ironic in the first lines of the chapter.

  I’m going to prove you how totally inaccurate people’s opinion is and that successful people never care about naysayers, they use their time in better ways. And unless you want to live a mediocre life with the people you argue with, then you better learn this. Focus on what you want to do, not on discussing it with others.

  Let’s examine the case of Edison. When Thomas Edison said he would be able to record and reproduce the human voice, everyone laughed at him and his goal, considering him crazy. But what about when the first phonograph ever was born? Let me answer this question with another question. Who was laughing then, Edison, which achieved a net worth that would today be estimated to $200 Million during his life, or the naysayers? This man was one of the greatest inventors ever, yet he failed more than 10000 times.

  Failure is a step closer to success. While working on the lightbulb, Edison failed over 1000 times. Did he give up? No, because he had a tremendous desire, unconditioned faith, and an extraordinaire perseverance. When he was asked: <> He replied: <>. This brings us straight to the second and third steps to achieve anything you want in life: faith and persistence.

  Let’s guess you go back in the past. It’s the year 1850 in the USA, and you start to tell people that in about 50 years, two brothers will create a machine that will fly through the sky and within 100 years the same machine will bring 100 people, from Europe to America in few hours. Would they laugh at you? Yes. Would they call you crazy? Yes! But history teaches us that the Wright’s brothers achieved this result. How could two young men with no specialized school instruction create something like that?? The reason is there is something more important than degrees. A dream and the ability to make it real through action.

  Nowadays during a summer, more than 200 Million people travel around the world using airplanes. As usual, the naysayers were wrong.

  What is the secret of the Wright’s brothers success? They used the most methodical and successful approach, called trial and error, the best way to overcome obstacle after obstacle. Anyone else used the same strategy? Edison right!

  I used the same exact strategy to fight my way up from a loser, controlled by his sexuality to the alpha man I am today.

  I had great desire and faith to change my life completely. This attitude made me feel bad, around people because also the ones I admired the most, were trying to talk me out of my dream. I’ve heard it all: <> or <>, my answers were: <> and <>. I was done with dealing with people being rude and disrespectful to me. I decided I would not have allowed people anymore to decide for me! I knew I was not a loser, neither I was a beta male. My desire to completely change my personality, from a lazy, unhappy person, that needed a leader to follow. And to become the strong, powerful and driven version of myself. I did it!

  Desire was the first ingredient, and faith kept me alive at the first stages. Then my perseverance appeared and started to grow and, this is where the real work began. My body, spiritual and mental strength went at another level. I was a leader, I was hungrier, I was reading more, exercising more, having my first loving and lovely girlfriends and for the first time I have felt appreciated and loved for who I was. And who I was? I was a person who decided to change his life where no one else ever did.

  For the first time, I realized what the great minds of the past meant, when they said it all starts with a simple thought. Of course, if I would not have had unconditional faith, even when there was not even the shadow of a single possibility of success, I would have remained a loser forever.

  My faith always pushed me, since when I was being ruined during my education process.

  But when persistence finally came, I was going faster than I have ever done before.

  In the next chapters, we will see how persistence will push you to get the results you dream.

  I will bring you in the process of modeling your body, mind, and spirit. Then you will apply your new abilities in business, social and dating life. During the process, suddenly you’ll start to find yourself thinking in a more dominant way, and your sexual preferences will automatically change.

  You
will become more charming and capable of getting emotionally and sexually close to girls. These qualities will make give you a very fulfilling love and sexual life.

  There are girls out there who like kinky sex. Some of them like to be spanked because “they have been naughty.” Some will like to kick you in the balls. And all of them will like a real man who’s not afraid to share with them his preferences.

  Am I saying to be rude or disrespectful to girls? No! I am saying exactly the contrary. Live in a way which will fulfill you and your partner.

  You’ll become a man who will enjoy all the pros of vanilla relationships with a bit of spicy. Will you ever do female domination again? Yes, and you’ll enjoy it. Will you ever have to pay escorts to do it? No!

  Your sexual fantasies will be only a part of a complete and loving relationship because you deserve love.

  Remember sexual fantasies are not something to be hidden, but something cool.

  In a dom/sub relationship, the slave is often egocentric and think only about his pleasure. We cannot say the same about vanilla relationships, indeed when they do work, both the man and the woman are very concerned into giving pleasure to each other - You will learn more about relationships with the opposite sex in chapter 7.

  How to get out of the egocentric mind-state will be clear in chapter 5.

  You got to understand that true leaders are not lucky people. They are rocks on which other people can rely. They are worthy of trust because they understand and know how to treat others. Forget what you see on television or cinema.

  Why am I Helping Others?

  Because I spent years learning to understand emotions and people sense that I have this ability.

  The secret to success is to apply the things I teach in this E-book from the first reading.

  You are up for the change you’ve been waiting. You have already taken the first step in becoming a successful person. You’ll learn to give not expecting anything back, yet you’ll get much more back.

  You will earn the respect of people, which will give you power. They’ll follow you and be attracted by your inner-strength, your stability, your benevolence.